To every woman, where ever you may be.....
There are times, when I can walk outside, and say; "it's a beautiful day." And it really is. The weather can be perfect...the sky clear....the sun just as bright. But the day will never be as perfect, the sun will never shine and brighten ones day as your eyes, your smile, your sense of humor and laughter can. The day itself can never equal you, in Beauty. That said, if I don't get to say anything else to you today.... I hope your day, and what's left of it, is as beautiful as you are.
With my heart, mind and soul....
"I want nothing more..."
Than to caress your heart inside my own, to give you peace and a resting place upon my shoulder. A place to go when all is dark, a place lit so bright and so warm, and so full of love that you forget the madness of the world. A place inside my arms, a world where you can feel safe, and free to simply be yourself. A quiet place if you chose to, where even i can listen to your thoughts...your heart. A place where judgement does not exist. A place for just you and I, filled with my finger tips tracing your skin, and gentle kisses along your spine. Holding hands, lying on the grass, staring at the stars, watching the world go by. Knowing nothing matters more than this mo...
There is no diamond in the earth, no painting on a wall...that holds more value, than what a man has standing beside him. Most men are not jewelers, with an eye for purity, clarity and quality. Most are not appraisers with an eye for uniqueness, originality....Who has the knowledge and expertise necessary to estimate the value of an asset. And yet, nothing that a man has, is more valuable than a woman.
With my heart, mind and soul...
When you look at it, the strings on a guitar has a lot of stories to tell. How it's handled, often dictates its melody. Though it is very much a beautiful instrument, and because of its lines and curves, combined with its melody, it is often equated with a woman, her body. And it is the sight, feel and touch of a woman that puts one in a place, like the sweet melodic sounds of a guitar being held and strings being strummed in the right way....She is incomparable. No other instrument is so held or handled or stroked or caressed or speaks with such a language as the rhythm of a woman's body...her walk...her smile...her touch...her eyes...her personality...her intelligence...her wisdom. It is ca...
Truth is such a powerful tool...
In some cases, the clearest mirror a man can see a reflection of himself, is by looking into the eyes, state of mind and condition of his woman. She is a reflection of what he does, what he is and what he may cause to come about.....heaven or hell, love or hatred, happiness or unhappiness, satisfaction or dissatisfaction, peace or chaos....in what is the reflection of himself.
So if he desires to change anything, it is not the reflection (the woman)....but the man, that is looking at the reflection of himself. And, in any other case, he should then take a look, in retrospect.
With my heart, mind and soul....
"Times when nothing more needs to be said."
The conversation between your finger tips and someone else's skin, is one of the most important discussions you will ever have....Nothing needs to be talked about or said or spoken...except through the senses....the body's response to touch....it's that open, calm, relaxed, easy and silent conversation that makes you feel good....no words ever being exchanged. Everything needed to be said, said in something as simple as one's touch....fingertips on someone else's skin. That one thing, that sometimes, says everything....when words can't find a way to say it.
With my heart, mind and soul...
You ever make New Years Resolutions? Oftentimes, they are somewhat difficult to stick to. I myself, made a New Years Resolution. In the sense of something I would like to give. Something that, I'm sure, anyway woman can enjoy and appreciate a lot of, considering most women are just like men in regards to what they like, desire and enjoy getting or having plenty of.
My New years Resolution, I've decided on.....To give you plenty of "Dick."
D - Displays of Affection.
I - Intimate Conversation.
C - Constant Reassurance.
K - Kind words of Encouragement.
That's not too much is it? Can you handle that? That's a resolution I think we can both enjoy...... Smile.
With my heart, mind and spirit....
My love for you has no walls...except to hold your love for me, but that's not all. My love has no limits...except what you may place upon it....and still, I will be willing to overcome it, if you are still willing to love me. My love for you has no height, nor depth....I'm not willing to share or reach without you. What is...is just that. What can be....will always have to be worked at. What is ahead of us...is always the goal to achieve. It started out young...and grew to be what is. Progress. Maturity. Success. Beautiful. Strong. My love for you, has no walls....except to hold your love me, but that's not all. How far are you willing come and how far are you willing go....is determined by ...
I was taught that, when ever we want to do anything of good or value in this world, we will always be tried to see just how much we really want to do it.
We can always expect some circumstances to arise or person(s) that gets in the way of what we intend to accomplish.
The circumstances or the person (though Unbeknownst to them) that is the trial or test, is not intended to make you fail, but to strengthen your resolve toward what you want to do.
It is to help bring out of you, the best that is in you. So you find within yourself the strength, the energy and commitment to that idea of succeeding.
When we are comitted to overcoming the circumstances or test, we find out things about ou...
Just think of how much sense it makes....."I would've never found you, had I not found me first"..... How much more important it is to find the right person in You, Than trying to first find the right person for you, in someone else? Think about it for a moment.
With my heart, mind, and spirit....
"I needed myself at a time, when I thought I needed you."
while we may need and or rely on one another to some degree, your greatest and my greatest need, and reliance should be, and will forever be upon God and self. Whether someone is non reciprocal, or if and when someone decides to walk out of your life, however painful it may appear to be, your life does not end there.
Your life, if anything, begins a new chapter. And in this new chapter, you realize you have found in yourself, the eternal source of everything you need.
To often, we over look the strength, wisdom and answers within ourselves and we give to much power, credit or responsibility to one who is ju...
Stop comparing where you’re at with where everyone else is. It doesn’t move you farther ahead, improve your situation, or help you find peace. It just feeds your shame, fuels your feelings of inadequacy, and ultimately, it keeps you stuck.
The reality is that there is no one correct path in life. Except the path of God. Everyone has their own unique journey. A path that’s right for someone else won’t necessarily be a path that’s right for you. And that’s okay.
Your journey isn’t right or wrong, or good or bad. It’s just different. Your life isn’t meant to look like anyone else’s because you aren’t like anyone else. You’re a person all your own with a unique set of goa...
Being a positive person doesn’t mean you have to be bubbly, chipper & happy 24/7. It is okay to feel down. You are only human and it is part of the human experience.
Don’t suppress these feelings when they come. Acknowledge them. Feel them. And accept them as a chapter in your journey. You can’t fast forward through parts of the movie and fully grasp the whole narrative.
Just like you can’t fast forward through the bad parts in your life and expect it all to make sense. Keep watching and you’ll learn to understand why certain experiences were significant to the overall story.
Being positive isn’t the absence of pain. Find meaning to the struggle and see the ligh...
when you say, "I love you" or have "love" in between two people, that "love" is like the (+,-,÷,×) between an equation that has to be solved by what it is between....two people. Love will always be tried. Love will always be tested. It has to be, so that you'll know it is true and real. But it also has to become that in the heart of the two people it is between and in, for one another.
Love is the greatest force out of which all things were created. Physically and the natural characteristics that help builds us up into who we are, through trail, difficulty, struggle and pain, by which to overcome and to succeed.
But just like in math, the failure to solve an equ...
In 1st Corinthians Ch. 13, the word Love is replaced by the word Charity.
Why? Because we are required to give to what we love. We give to maintain, to grow, to sustain and to keep what we love in continuance.
Charity means: generous actions. We have to constantly work at building what we have established. Otherwise “I love” becomes mere lip service! And a Term loosely used, having no sound value. And in some cases, a term used as a ploy.
Charity is a principle. In which we are required to give to the poor rate.
When Charity is down an institution is unable to maintain, sustain and grow itself. So the rate at which it can put out to maintain and help grow anoth...
I'm not sure if a woman ever becomes tired of being complimented or not or if there is a such thing as receiving too many compliments. But when a woman is simply beautiful. Simply gorgeous. Simply attractive. Simply sexy and her personality and intelligence matches all that she is......then why should a man run out of things to say or compliment her on? And why should not be said? Whose at fault? The woman, for being as beautiful as she is? Or the man that sees and appreciate her for what she is? I don't know if you ever become tired of being complimented, but I see what I see of you. I can't limit your beauty and everything that makes you so attractive and sexy. And I would not down play it...
Some want to be seen.
Others want to be heard.
I want to be felt.
I want to seep through your skin.
Travel your viens and
stimulate your senses.
I want your heart to skip
a beat from my energy.
For your soul to quake
in my presence.
I want to be felt in ways
no physical realm can fathom.
That only our spirits can translate
the effects of me.
You may not see me clearly.
You may not understand me fully.
But none of the above
Is required to feel me, undoubtedly.
Min Louis Farrakhan once said; "A woman is not happy with something and she is not happy with nothing." End quote.
I've come to understand his words to this degree. That this makes the woman to appear as being very difficult to please. As well as what she is and is not happy with as carrying an equal weight. So no matter how much you spend, or provide her with things, she is just as happy with nothing as she is with something.
But understand this, "Nothing" does not mean, absolutely. Nothing - reminds you to enjoy the things you already have. It forces you to consider the things that cannot be replaced by...“Things.” And that's time, comfort, and consideration of fulfilling a need.
Lessons: We learn by the things we suffer.
You have marks and scars on the inside, as you do on the outside; Don't make you anything other than human. Some are made by what's been done to you, while others are made by what you have done to yourself, and for those....you can blame no one. They are a reminder of what you have suffered, what you have gone through and what you have overcome. Even now, a reminder of a pain you still feel from scars left from so long ago. And, as much as there is a reason, there is always a story behind every mark, pain or scar....that has had both, an effect and an affect on our lives. Both however, may heal over time. But the process toward healing may be differ...
Of the things I've learned.....of the things I'm most passionate about.
"A woman is not written in brille. You do not have to touch her, to get to know her."
As a man, having a meaningful conversation with a woman, is like closing your eyes and allowing your heart to see the beauty of things before you, your eyes will undoubtedly miss. However the texture of what is in our hands, tells us only about the texture....whether it's soft or otherwise.... But when we take the time to engage her heart and mind, we allow ourselves to get to know her, without the distraction of something being in our hand. She's so much more than what is in front of her and what's behind her. The softness of her bod...
To worship At the altar of beauty....to feel her loveliness and pain....To thrill at the Wonder of Her gorgeous moon....Or the sharp swift silver swords of falling rain....To walk in a golden garden....When an autumn sun is almost set....When near nights purple splendor shimmer to a starshine net....To worship at the altar of beauty, Is a pleasure divine....Not giving to the many many....but to fools who drinks beauty's wine. Not given to the many many.... But to fools who seek no other Goddess, nor grapes...plucked, from another's vine.
~ Langston Hughes ~
Out of humility, I write.
Nobody else is walking in your shoes...they were custom made to fit, believe it or not. So don't be shy about telling someone, they showing you too much unwanted attention, placing you on a pedestal you don't belong. And you are not walking in someone else's shoes. So keep your mind, thoughts and opinions on you. It's safer that way. Because whereever they may have to walk, might not be meant for you, though they may be some lesson it in. So know that as quickly as someone can be a lesson for you...you can just as quickly, become a lesson for someone else. Where and how a person walks on their journey, is a part of the circumstances on how they will get there. Just ...
After awhile you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul, and you learn that love doesn’t mean possession and company doesn’t mean security. And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts and presents aren’t promises and you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes ahead with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child. And you learn to build your roads today, because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans, and futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight. After awhile you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much, so you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you ...