When I looked back at my 2015, I clearly saw how the bad times meant everything.
How every moment that lead me to happiness revolved around darkness.
The darkness scared me most of the times, it took me to a place where I didn't know where it would go. I didn't know the end of it.
But then sometimes it lead me to beautiful things.
And then I realised that whats meant to be will always find its way.
And the harder it was to find happiness, the more I valued it.
And I'm glad I did.
So here's to another year of smiles and cries, tears of joy and anguish, lessons learnt and taught, to hoping and giving it up, to standing back up, to being strong and to survivin...
What if life is not about becoming something?
Maybe Life is everything about unbecoming.
Unbecoming everything that you are not, just so that you could be what you were meant to be in the first place..
What if this is how life works?
They say death ends love.
That it breaks bonds.
But doesn't loss make one realise the importance of the person lost?
When someone dies, it shouldn't be the end of love and it isn't.
You don't just stop loving someone when they die, in fact death enhances it.
Loss in any sense teaches value. Value for the person lost, value for the bond between the both of you.
Sure, after a point there is no crying and choking up every time you remember them.
You get used to it.
You accept the fact that the person isn't around anymore.
You learn love again, live again, smile again.
I doubt anyone stops loving someone because they die.
We just learn to live and adopt.
We learn ...
Heartbreak doesn't make you heartless..
It makes you smarter...
You learn that your happiness doesn't depend on anyone but you..
Your happiness is only yours. It belongs to you.
Never beg someone to love you.
I know I wouldn't.
There is no use in hopeless pleas of trying to make someone stay.
You are too good to chase someone who doesn't know your worth and too wild to wait for them to acknowledge your value.
Everyone wants to be loved unconditionally.
There's few of us who would fight for it too, fight with all we have.
But please know when to stop.
You don't have to prove to someone you're worth it, because you are worth so much more.
I promise you one day you're going to find someone who wouldn't need convincing.
They will love you unconditionally and then a little more.
Fight then. Fight for a love that is not one sided. Fight when...
I took to writing when someone suggested it as an outlet.
I stopped writing when I felt better, until I realised writing was much much more...
It's help me accept, Helped me learn, Helped me grow.
And then I missed it.
I missed penning down my thoughts and memories.
I also realised how much I needed it. I realised not being able to share what I felt was suffocating.
So after almost a year, here I am, writing, expressing..
“Crave A Love So Deep That Even The Oceans Would Be Jealous“
Let someone love you just the way you are, as flawed as you might be.. as unattractive as you think you are and as unaccomplished as you sometimes feel..
Let someone love you and all your broken pieces. No exceptions.
The truth about most people is that they will never accept you the way you are..
Change yourselves.. but not for them.. One flaw reduced is one flaw added.. People will always find something wrong..
Change for the better.. for yourself by yourself..
Don't bend for them..
Stay strange.. Don't calm your heart.. Don't fall back..
Whatever you do and however you do it, people will always love you i...
"you may not always be strong.. but u can always be brave"
I read this somewhere.. It stuck with me since..
I learnt how to be brave this year..
I saw a woman give birth in a local train.. It was the most scariest and the most beautiful thing altogether.. She is brave..
I was brave enough to trust..
I was brave enough to take chances..
Strength is secondary..
You need to be brave to make a decision but you need strength to see how it ends..
Have you ever noticed a child learning how to swim..?
Going into that water, knowing he might just sink requires bravery.. well staying afloat.. swimming...? a hell lot of strength..
This year I learnt how to be brave..
There's a few things that life teaches us, here's what it taught me..
Life is too short to be anything but happy..
So smile a lot... Love more,
Fall in love and fall deep..
Make mistakes.. Learn from them.. Don't regret.. It felt right at that time.. so it was the correct thing to do..!
And always remember no matter what happens.. Life goes on..
Each day comes and goes and nothing is permanent.. Not emotions nor people nor situations..
There's good days and bad ones..
Accept and find happiness..
Keep that smile on.. don't let anything make you frown..
It'll be fine in the end.. if its not okay.. It is not the end..
There are happy endings..