Some people leave in search of the love they do not find within themselves because this kind of self-love cannot be found while trying to love someone else. @PLECCA
The mess you are experiencing now will eventually lead you towards a path of wisdom and clarity. The pain you are feeling is life’s way of letting you know that you must make some changes to get your life back in order. @PLECCA
Everything thing evolves , even love.
Carnal and romantic love evolves into divine love . Love is the force of creation of this universe . The creator's love created the whole world, and we are his children so our love essentially has the same potential. Carnal love produces a human child while evolved or divine love creates divine things. When shah jahan couldn't connect to his wife in the material plane his love evolved, and by it's force of creation gave birth to Taj . We too can harness this force to reach our goals , just start to experience love in a deeper plane. Love your special one's soul instead of their body and see the magic of creation unfold.
Sometimes, we become stuck in the same routine and seek comfort in the way things are now. It feels the safest and most familiar to you. When you tend to see the world darker than it truly is, a part of you starts to believe there is no love, friendship or passion that can bring any light back into your life. We remain alone and discontent only when we have given up on our desire for love, connection and something to be passionate about. @PLECCA
It was a mistake.
It was bad timing .
It is the guilt.
We should have thought
We have sinned.
Do not tell me
It never happened.
You are the best thing
That ever happened.
It's something about sexuality that I want to talk about today. Its said that men cannot say no to sex and they will risk everything including their relationship to get a few minutes of thrill. What I am going to talk about actually applies to anybody men, women and non binary people.
One question , do we control our sexuality or does it control us? It's actually us! The fault is of our movies and pornography that have taken away the power of deciding what you find arousing or tempting! They tell you that hey extramarital affair is fun and you believe it! If I make a movie series which shows that there's nothing more arousing than a loyal partnership and getting to know your partner's body ...
Couples who are successful in the long-term are able to focus their attention on each other’s thoughts and ideas. They demonstrate a high level of interest and respect when communicating what they feel. Their conversations flow smoothly and they constantly motivate one another. The passion they share keeps them connected and they always feel like a part of the same team. @PLECCA
I have a long list of things that make me happy and a longer one that don't. But since I'm pretty good at segmenting, my focus remains on all things bright and beautiful. So here are my top seven joys, in that order:
1. Dance: both Indian classical and modern Western
2. Reading: give me a crime thriller and watch my surroundings melt away
3. Chocolates: anything above 55% cocoa content is always welcome
4. Conversations: deep and meaningful ones with a little humour sprinkled across; preferably with my family though, and probably close friends
5. Coffee: a black, sugar free cuppa is all I need to get in the "zone"
6. Writing and Calligraphy: some times content and at others the fonts take my...
Sometimes, when someone loves you more than you love yourself, it will feel smothering and overwhelming to you. You may fear it and decide to walk away from somebody that appears to be desperate for you. The truth is, it is impossible for you to embrace this type of love if you have never even shown yourself that kind of deep unconditional love. @PLECCA
You will find love once it has become easy for you to love yourself. When you are one with your heart, you can feel more deeply and connect with the one who can love you like you do. @PLECCA
Can you tell me this?
Why is it that we strive for freedom from all shackles - mental, financial, psychological - and yet when that freedom is just around the corner, we feel more scared of it than we've ever feared anything else?
Is it just the trepidation aroused by the change that's to come, or is it that we were only in love with the idea of freedom and not freedom itself? For, to be truly free, wouldn't it mean to be rid of all attachments, expectations and dependence? To be able to live as we wish without being burdened by the constructs of society. And are we really ready to be in that state of existence?
We're supposedly social beings, with an inherent urge for association - with p...
When there is no trust and it is just lust, your connection will be begin to rust and the false sense of love you initially experienced will disintegrate faster than dust. @PLECCA
What I see from the window
A life of love I'm not the recipient of sadly.
Excitement and adventure I'm excluded from daily.
Friends & family who go place to place together while I'm here all alone, a nobody!
Every hope. Every dream. Every wish. Ever desired reminding me they will never be for me.
Freedom from this personal hell where glass and pane have turned to iron bars and lock with no key.
What life could be if only I could be free.
EVERYTHING I WANT LIVES
ON THE OTHER SIDE OF
THE WINDOW FROM ME!
That's what I see...
looking in or looking out,
remains the same
I found myself looking
at the golden sun this morning
thinking of how warm it is
This never ending source
of faith in living
I found myself standing
in the crowd yelling and screaming
Who doesn't realize the crimson sun
was ready to be a gift of love
for everyone who was celebrating
the end of the day
I found myself with closed eyes
seeing only the blue sun before me
I knew it was a sign of hope
which was nowhere to be found
using just human eyes
And I wondered then and there
Have I felt it in my chest
Or was it just the pain
The best way to get rid of sadness is through becoming angry at yourself. You must become so angry about losing control over your emotions that you no longer allow everyone and everything around you dictate how you feel. The angrier you become, the faster your repressed emotions will give you the clarity and strength you need to be happy again. @PLECCA
I bet it was not easy
to carry yourself to death.
I do not doubt your guts,
it must have been a lot
that you had to take
light off your sight, life off lives.
I bet it was not easy
to keep breathing through
the pain in your chest.
You must have tried to kill the urge
of killing yourself.
I bet it was not easy
to silence the voices in your head
so that you could smile for another second.
You must have searched for hope
in days filled with darkness.
I bet it was not easy
to hold onto things in your eyes
and you, you must have tried to
look into someone else's
for a reflection of yourself.
But I, am hurt.
You bet it is not easy...
A Soul had a wings to fly
When it started flying humanity opposed
Humanity divided itself in to multiple races which lead to collisions
Because of this collisions the souls wings were slaughtered.
Now the soul is alone waiting for its day to fly to reach its dream.
A soul had a wings to fly!!
And it may be that you are not bad at relationships, maybe you are simply bad at choosing who to be in a relationship with. @PLECCA
If you think
the world is ugly
If you think
you are a mess,
Just remember you are
To see the changing sky
at every wake of dawn.
To stare at the darkness
beyond the shiny stars.
To smell the air
before raindrops fall.
To watch the world pass by when travelling fast.
You are blessed
To love and receive
the love you ask for,
If you don't believe me,
just look at you
through my eyes
To see the real beauty