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PLECCA

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United States
United States
MFT - Writer - Poet
May 2, 2020
 

Our parent’s marriage has the power to influence our idea of relationships. It may help us understand how to love our partner or it can lead us to believe there is nothing wrong with being in a loveless relationship. @PLECCA

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May 1, 2020
 

Sometimes, we must give people a chance to prove they are not toxic instead of quickly dismissing them whenever they remind us of someone who hurt us in the past. @PLECCA

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April 29, 2020
 

We run away from those who show us a glimpse of unhealthy behavior when it feels familiar and we are still trying to heal our heart from a wound of the past. @PLECCA

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April 28, 2020
 

The disgust, anger and resentment you hold inside strips you of your inner-peace. We sometimes believe we are punishing others by withholding our presence from them thinking we are getting rid of the pain they have caused, when in fact, moving on means being able to sit across from somebody who has hurt you without your peace being disturbed. @PLECCA

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April 27, 2020
 

The unfairness and imbalance you experience in your relationships often has to do with your attachment style. Once you understand how you connect with others, you will gain more clarity into the kind of person that can be happy and at peace with you. @PLECCA

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April 24, 2020
 

It is harder for some than others to connect with people on a deeper level. Those who become emotionally depleted from the daily stress they face in their lives cannot give love, attention and care to their children, partner or family members. They do not even have enough space within their heart to show love to themselves. @PLECCA

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April 23, 2020
 

Honesty is now often being misinterpreted and perceived as a personal attack, while white lies continue to be received as a form of acceptance and embrace. The truth sets you free from those who do not want to hear it and dishonesty keeps you connected to the ones that like to lie to themselves. @PLECCA

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April 21, 2020
 

After all of my encounters with people, I have come to realize that only those who are authentic and stay true to themselves are able to embrace real pure advice and the ones who live by holding on to lies simply reject any kind of advice that exposes the inconvenient truth. @PLECCA

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April 19, 2020
 

When stubbornness has complete power over your mind and you use anger in an effort to hold on to your views, you hold yourself back from allowing knowledge and peace into your soul. @PLECCA

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April 15, 2020
 

Life has a way of bringing about pain, disappointment and heartache to you in order to help you realize that things need to change from within you. It is easier to work on self-growth than to try to change everyone and everything around you. @PLECCA

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April 14, 2020
 

People who fail to change have a tendency to fall in love with their own negative traits and expect others to embrace them without requiring any personal growth. @PLECCA

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April 9, 2020
 

We often become attracted to people that remind us of past trauma that has been left unresolved, in the hopes that we can change our story and heal the parts of ourselves that continue to hurt inside. @PLECCA

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April 7, 2020
 

Those who struggle with anxiety feel restless inside, which in turn can manifest itself as restlessness when stuck in a single place, unable to distract the mind from guilt, inner turmoil, stress or trauma. @PLECCA

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April 2, 2020
 

Empowerment is realizing at your own pace that you have the power to choose a different outcome in your life and understanding that no matter what circumstances you find yourself in at the moment, things do not have to remain the same. @PLECCA

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April 1, 2020
 

Take these moments to connect with your passion and read about topics you have never heard of before. Search for ways to improve the things you have always wanted to develop in yourself but never had the time to do. Shine new light into the darker areas of your mind so you can return to society with newfound insight and in a new stage of enlightenment. @PLECCA

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March 29, 2020
 

We tend to focus on the bad in those who are good for us because we begin to believe it is too good to be true and start losing attraction when we feel they have become predictable, complacent and comfortable in the relationship. @PLECCA

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March 28, 2020
 

We tend to ignore the bad in those who are not good for us because their apparent unpredictable, passionate and ambitious nature blinds us into believing they are a good match for us when it is all just a temporary facade to gain our commitment. @PLECCA

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March 25, 2020
 

Your lack of luck in relationships often depends on your perspective. Sometimes, we look for the bad in those who are a good match for us and ignore the bad in people who are not good for us. @PLECCA

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March 21, 2020
 

Wake me up when this is all over. When society is wiser and much more older. Where there is no need to look over your shoulder. When the world is kinder and love is much more bolder. @PLECCA

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March 14, 2020
 

If you have to change too many parts of yourself to get someone to love you, you will end up getting into a relationship that will never feel genuine to you. @PLECCA

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March 12, 2020
 

When things start to go wrong in your relationship no matter how hard you try to make everything right, you are not taking the wrong approach, they are just simply wrong for you. @PLECCA

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March 10, 2020
 

Sometimes, those who prefer to spend their time sleeping around find it easier to do so because it is more comfortable to keep things casual with others than to be in a relationship with someone that requires you to change and grow as an individual. @PLECCA

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March 6, 2020
 

The right one will only appear to you once you are mentally and emotionally prepared to fully embrace their love. Just think, The love of your life is out there loving the wrong ones too. It eventually will be you that fate leads them to. @PLECCA

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March 4, 2020
 

Love is never easy. Those lacking love never find true love, only people who are loving are able to be in love. You see, love is only for people who know how to love. @PLECCA

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March 3, 2020
 

Love is not about laughing, holding hands and understanding each other when everything is going right. True love is about being able to endure many differences and misunderstandings when things are going wrong without letting go of each other’s hands. @PLECCA

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March 1, 2020
 

Falling in love with someone who leaves you will teach you that it does not matter how much you love anyone. When they are wrong for you, they will never be able to love the parts that are right in you. @PLECCA

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February 28, 2020
 

Those who are unfaithful in their relationships remain in a constant state of confusion. They waste their time entertaining someone who will never value their heart and spend their years with someone they do not truly love. You see, cheaters always cheat themselves out of experiencing genuine love. @PLECCA

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February 26, 2020
 

Whenever you force someone to stay, you are preventing them from making a decision that will bring them peace, and if they cannot be at ease with themselves, they will never be at peace while in a relationship with you. @PLECCA

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February 25, 2020
 

Never get too comfortable being alone, for extreme isolation can turn into your dark place even when you believe it is becoming your peace. @PLECCA

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February 23, 2020
 

Do not simply express your anger and yell in frustration. Explain your anger and how it affects the way you view your partner. Raising your voice will only make you mad, while suppressing your true underlying emotions will just keep you sad. @PLECCA

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