|You either have the feelings or you don't! - Hawk Davies|
"The only thing worse than a boy who hates you: a boy that loves you."
Beware of THAT one!
DO YOU KNOW HOW I FEEL
WHEN I LOOK AT MYSELF IN THE MIRROR?
A MEMENTO OF A SOUL IN A DIFFERENT BODY,
A TRAITOR IN ESSENCE.
THOUGHT I WAS SOMEONE LIKE YOU,
BUT I AM NOT TO BE,
FOR YOU ARE ACCEPTED IN SOCIETY,
BUT I WILL NEVER BE?
WHY DO YOU NOT ACCEPT ME?
IF IT BECAUSE YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ME?
YOU CITE REASONS LIKE GOD AND RELIGION,
NOT ONCE THINKING ABOUT ME?
HAVE YOU THOUGHT ABOUT MY DREAMS AND NIGHTMARES?
THE ONES THAT SHOULD BE SIMILAR TO YOURS,
THOUGH I MUST SAY, MY NIGHTMARES ARE WORST,
DUE TO NO FAULT OF MINE.
I CRAVE FOR ACCEPTANCE,
I CRAVE FOR NORMAL LIFE.
LAYING WITH A MAN SEEMS SO NORMAL TO ME,
BUT THE WORLD IS NOT SO KIND.
People never fail to disappoint you.
Some one you have known for years, somebody who has been a best friend to you, somebody who has treated you like nobody ever has, somebody who you think will always stay up the pedestal and raise the bar, finds the exact moment and exact way to disappoint you. You think that there's only so much disappointment you can take and hold and then your closest people happen to break the ball.
At this instance, I feel I should be glad that I only had a few people I trusted and expected from because that much less disappointment to be suffered!
This one is all you ifty and it took you four years for us to come down to this.
You are third closes...
Lessons from 2017:
* Never let anybody in. The minute you show people your real self, they find "n" number of ways to hurt you.
* People are not your enemy. Your enemy is your vulnerability. Strengthen your self, so that nobody can take advantage of your vulnerability.
* Do not count on anybody. Never forget that in darkness even your own shadow forsakes you. Then what do you expect from anybody else?
* People will say that you mean "moon and stars" to them but only believe what you see.
* Previous belief, "love empowers you". Revised lesson, "love humiliates you by making you helpless when you need it the most."
Thanking 2017 for being the most learning experience of life.
You know the feeling
when you share everything with someone day in and day out,
when they are the part of your very existence,
when your happiness or sadness is not complete without letting them be a part of it all?
And then they LEAVE like you never meant anything.
Yes! That exact feeling!
That's the reason people are scared to fall in love.
Sorry never mends anything.
It only brings back everything to remind you why you are in this situation in the very first place.
What's the best time to kiss her?
When you see her,
When you ask her out,
When she is babbling on about something,
When you are arguing,
When you are with her friends,
When she cries,
When she is happy,
When she does something you love,
Before you leave,
After you just kissed her,
The point is, whenever you get a chance kiss her,
Because this life is too long but we don't have enough time.
I hated the world
So I could love you more
And you loved me less because of that!
Sometimes you have to distance yourself from people,
To actually know who is close to you!
What is freedom?
The contentment that you feel even at the lack of people/feelings/things that you once thought were necessary for your survival.
The happiness you feel despite lack of those people/feelings/things that were once the gravitational force holding you to your this life.
Love cures commitment phobia!
Always remember, every man you have every dated who had said that he doesn't want to get married or doesn't believe in marriage, will, rest assured, someday be married.
It just will never be with you.
Because he's not really saying he doesn't want to get married. He is saying he doesn't want to get married to YOU.
There will never be a good time, financially, to get married, unless you're Shaq or Ray Romano. But somehow people manage.
If your man is using financial problems as an excuse to not to marry you, it's your relationship that's insecure, not his bank account.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to get married. You should...
This is a help request.
I have been reading and seeing beautiful doodles in so many letters by you amazing writers.
I haven't been able to create a single doodle up until the day.
Can you guys please give me your amazing tips as to how i can begin adding doodles to my letters?
Please pour in your tips and tricks for beginners like me.
Would really appreciate it!
Letting go is not forgetting. Letting go is to remember, but with a smile.
Letting go is to feel an old self shed its way down to your ankles while you stare at your new, glistening skin.
Letting go is to love, love those very demons and memories until they become soft enough to be put to sleep.
And to love that broken open heart, not waiting to be fixed but celebrated.
Letting go is to lay with your fears, naked in your light.
Letting go is bravery, the kind that weaves you into your own hero.
Letting go is to finally see the wings you were gifted when the ground decided to throw you off.
This is what it means to truly let go.
This is what it means to knock on love’s door.
Some love stories are such,
The longer you stay in it,
The lesser you start loving yourself!
Lately I have been reading a book "he's just not that into you". And surprisingly I have found percepts of the books that are way way relevant to me.
So I will be sharing a few which I think might be relatable to the women out there!
The big question here is, "is it okay for a guy to forget to call me?". I am saying to you, "NO".
Barring disaster - someone had to be rushed to the hospital, he was just fired from him job, someone keyed his Ferrari (kidding) - he should NEVER forget to call you. If I like you, I don't forget you, EVER.
Don't you want a guy who'll forget about all the other things in his life before he forgets about you?
I am about to make a wild...
We love just once in a lifetime
spend the rest of our lives looking for something similar.
For a long time I have thought about what kind of man I have been looking for, finally I am able to narrow it down:
- I will not go out with a man who hasn't asked me out first
- I will not go out with a man who keeps me waiting by the phone for his messages or call
- I will not date a man who isn't sure if he wants to date me
- I will not date a man who makes me feel sexually undesirable
- I will not date a man who drinks or does drugs to an extent that makes me uncomfortable
- I will not be with a man who's afraid to talk about our future
- I will not, under any circumstances, spend my precious time with a man who has already rejected me
- I will not date a man who differentiates...
You don't have to be a hero to save the day,
Sometimes, all it takes is having your heart in the right place.
Some people focus on solving everybody else's problems rather than their own.
Facing one's own problems tells them their weakness and flaws which would make life harder for them.
So why not to pretend that life is perfect the way it is!?
No matter how much that breaks, mutilates, destroys, devastates and becomes never ending struggle for someone else!