When your heart breaks again and again you develop a weird aggression inside you towards life ... a fire burns inside so high .. It is upto you when you let it could turn you into Ashes or light up the path of your life
You know the problem is when we love , we love too much .. and when their love doesn’t match ours which is always the case we are heartbroken.. That’s why love always hurts ..
They say love selflessly but they don’t tell how much it takes to do
That’s the thing about love .. the more you go after it the more it runs away from you .. the more you let it go and move on , it comes and hits you back like a storm .. whatever happens we run to and run away
Nobody falls in love with a crying face , sad face , depressed face ? Ever wondered why ?
Everyone loves a happy bright colourful picture of you
Because no one wants the “baggage”
Why ? Then why is love called selfless ? Only until you get what you expect or desire or maybe it is a far fetched fantasy you are in love but when there is despair struggle sadness availability .. does love stay the same ?
Have you ever given your heart and soul into something and still failed
Yes I know you have I have too
Have you ever hurt someone you loved the most
Yes I know you have , I have too
Have you ever wanted to be in a place you didn't know existed a far away place
Yes I know you have I have too
Have you ever broken into a million pieces and joined them back to stand up again
I know you have many times , i have too
In the end all of us have different lives but similar emotions we love laugh cry hurt , it's what makes you human , it's what makes you alive
How funny human nature is to never be satisfied with what they have .. when everything they have is temporary.. either good or bad !
So why not cherish the good n let go the bad BUT how we are humans we do the opposite of what could lead to peace
Change is the most constant thing in the world .. how ironic is our love for familiarity when nothing remains the same .. Seasons moments good days bad days pain joy ..nothing !!
The world is so driven by the concept of perfection that sometimes it's amusing to see how everyone has something to point in the other when in reality no one or nothing is perfect .. Perfection is perception! What is good to you could be bad to me , pretty to me could be just ok to you .. what is perfection after all .. it amuses me how someone can talk about another persons lacunae when they never worked on their own.. Whether it be thoughts ,nature ,looks ,anything. Perfection to me is what the other wants you to be like ! But if that were so we would all be clones .. The beauty is in imperfections. As long as it doesn't harm anyone be whatever the hell you want to be and own it
Some people win hearts but lose everything else , some win dollars and fame but are still lonely.
Winning is a perspective be your own champion first
In a universe like this , the possibilities are Infinite !
You might be a finite speck in the infinite but dont forget you are a mass of energy with the ability of infinite to affect this world with every breath , thought , or move.
So while we live the finite let us not under estimate our potential to make a difference.
Invest your power into the world and lets make it a better place in whatever small way we can
How Insignificant life becomes without love.. After all we are just a speck of dust in the galaxy...Nothing without each other..Together we form a universe yet just two specks can make their own world..
" IT IS A FIGHT and
YOU WILL NOT QUIT !
YOU WIN OR YOU LOSE WHICH EVER WAY BUT YOU WILL NOT GIVE UP..
YOU FIGHT TILL YOU FALL BUT YOU WILL NOT QUIT.. you hear me ?"
How beautiful it is to have someone who doesnt let you lose yourself.. Who reminds you the same things you made you.. Who you have been.. :)
A make of traditional values handed over by our parents mixed with modern principles of today...I think we are not just the languages we speak and the places we are born..we are all made of the same stardust..our ability to blend in and adapt..and that's the beauty of our culture.. as one across diversity.. languages,states,festivals,religions,caste,color,creed...That's what sets us apart ! That's what we need to preserve , that's what the world needs !
But for the RIGHT reasons !
The right cause , people ,the voice of your heart !
BE HUMANE , BE FEARLESS
Faith is such a feeble thing , takes so long to build and a minute to break.. Someome once told me to be trusted is a bigger compliment then to be loved..
The most honest conversations are the ones that are typed , retyped but never sent.
Travelling back home from work
Me : Annoyed and stressed , lost in my world
Cab driver : Ma'am do you like music ? I can switch it on
Me : hesitant " ya u can put it on"
Cab driver : It helps :)
Me : ignoring him* coughing intermittently and unaware all this while
Cab driver : shall I switch of the A.c
Me : Uhh ? No I'm not well it's not because of the AC
Cab driver : No ma'am it aggravates cough, it l stop if I switch it off
Me : umm ok
*silence all way and he dropped me off and surprisingly I was fine. Just one gesture touched me so much , because sometimes thats the only positive thing that happened in your day. How ironic it is to have the whole world care for you including someone ...
There is a difference between sympathy and sacrifice.. love is not a sympathy it's a sacrifice.. putting someone before is you is not charity it's love..love is never maybe , probably it is hell yes , can't breathe without , want to see happy , care , protectiveness about that person.. It is standing up for them when everything is falling apart.. and that's why love is not easy because the real test comes in when you have to choice to stand against all odds or make a u turn and give up
Late night musings :
The greatest enemy of your mind is your own mind itself.. Defeat those thoughts!
And probably Phoenix was actually not just a mythological creature but a human trait we all have.. A phoenix falls and burns itself so many times but to be reborn again.. to get up again...from the ashes and flames ..there is a Phoenix in me.. In you.. in all of us...
The best part about coming home is we have something exactly where we left it.. and how we left it.. you develop a sense of security and belonging to it..no matter how far we go. . It remains home because it's something you would want to go back to at the end of any tiring stressful day.. or any journey .. or any mental break you want your mind to escape to.. or when youre sick..Nothing can beat coming home..
Home is not four walls.. or a place.. it's an emotion .. :)
The times when every minute goes like an eternity where you fear nothing would happen is the time you just wish to be proved wrong
The only thing strongest enough to defeat a human is his own mind..That's why they say Nothing is impossible
There is no passion in settling for a life that is less than what you are capable of living
A good friend told me today ' Under estimating yourself or doubting yourself is the ultimate defeat , even if you feel put down never lose the faith in yourself .
People will have a hundred opinions .Your loved ones will never have an opinion about you or try to put you down and others don't matter. What really does what you believe about yourself and the things you know you should be better at. After all life is so short for all the doubts.
Learnt lessons : In real friendships.. I have learnt that you do not have the committment of keeping up with a regular schedule of daily weekly or monthly meets , distances and time will never weaken your bond if you have love in your heart BUT it is very important to BE THERE AT THE RIGHT TIME IN THE SITUATION THEY NEED YOU..
that's the foundation of a strong friendship , because when things get tough you get to know the people who love you truly