If you cannot understand the fear or panick someone’s going through, the least you do is support them and let them know you are there for them. Maybe they are showing you their panicky side because they trust or maybe they don’t know what to do and how to get through that. Maybe they are afraid of some things which they can’t express. They just need comfort and someone to listen to them. They want someone to care about what they feel.
Instead of passing contradicting comments or putting forward the conflicting thoughts which might result in them shutting down, maybe for once, just try to understand them. It won’t cost you anything but it can comfort them. Be nice and kind to people. The w...
How naive do you feel while giving the advice and motivation to someone else which you need to follow yourself?
Me? I don’t!
You know why? People need to hear that they are loved and cared about. They need to listen that someone else is cheering for them. They need to know that not everybody they come across is spreading negativity. They deserve to feel good about themselves. They need to know that they are not alone and someone else is there who feels the same way and is struggling through stuff but they are not giving up. They need to know that they don’t have to let negative people run their lives and influence their choices because they are loved and have people who care about them.
The days when you feel lost even when you are surrounded by people. The days you think you are not loved even though people keep saying you are loved. The days when you wish you were happy but the tangled thoughts don’t let you to. The days when you are with friends but feel like you are being ignored. And the days you want to chase the world but you demotivate yourself.
Remember to smile and believe in yourself. Believe that the day will come when you are not overthinking and embracing the life as it is. Know your worth and know that not everyone you meet has the same priorities as you do. Know that not everyone has the same place for you in their hearts as you have for them.
There was the time when they were your inspiration, for the things you think, for the words you write. Like a moon in the dark night, and the sun in the cloudy morning, they were there to show you light. They were there on the days you felt happy and on the days you felt low, to encourage you to embrace it gracefully. But like all the good things that come to an end, may be it was destined as well. May be it was for the days you were not supposed to be together but just to hold those memories and cherish them on the days like these when you don’t know what to do. May be those were to put a smile on your face when everything seemed to go wrong and making yourself realise, “you went through tha...
Isn’t it embarrassing for the human kind when people think that the war between two countries is going to be “entertaining” specially when that particular person is a celebrity?
Did you find it entertaining when your own countrymen goes to war or when your country is the reason for the war in different countries?
“War” is not entertaining or funny. It is a serious issue and people should be sensible and sensitive about the same.
Note to self:
You will get time to whine over stupid things. It’s better to start focusing on the important things coming your way. May be those things are not important for others but they could be for you.
It is hard to focus on your goals when you have distractions on the way. Maybe, you have them because God wants to test you by giving distractions along with what you have always wished for.
It won’t matter for how long you have been friends with someone and how much you did for them or how much you shared with them when they have a ego problem.
It took me three and a half months to adjust in Oxford and I actually couldn’t or should I say, didn’t focus on the thing I actually went for. As this is the first time I living away from my family and friends, it was hard and sometimes it still is but this is what I chose for myself. But it rips my heart thinking about the last few months and how I wasted everything and didn’t really focus on my goal and indulged in unimportant things. I don’t know how my next few months are going to go and will I be able to do what I really want to do or not but I know I have to give my 100% and don’t let myself get distracted.
I think I am not the only one who is facing problems and get distracted easily ...
You and me
Are the ones with dreams
Searching for different things
In the world we live in.
Let’s part our ways,
For your sake and mine
And leave everything on destiny.
To see if it’s meant to be.