|Dear God, when I said it can't be worse.. it was not a challenge..|
I often say I love u so much so may be it's lost its charm .. But if anything can convey how much love i have for you i want to tell you. Just imagine this.. I expected my wife in a particular image or to say I had some expectation of her.. But ever since you walked in babe, you have become more than I expected.. You have now become my journey and like joinerys you don't have a end. You just keep changing the direction and keep going. I just have a good feeling about the time I will get with you. I am not just saying these things but I want you at every single moment with me. If you aren't with me I am already on missing side.. no matter what I get. I can't repay even a single moment with you...
When I look at you..
It's Like looking at the
most beautiful masterpiece.
Yes ! You..
You whom I love most.
From head to toe, without
any second thoughts
despite of you not approving my love..
You whom I care no end,
despite of being a coward
and melancholic man.
You who promise me eternal
yet give me long days of
loneliness and unbearable heartaches..
You whom I'm willing
to stay with,
despite of the many
reasons to leave.
All I need is You.
Just look at me.
Quality Vs Flaws
People always fall in love with the most perfect aspects of each other’s personalities. Who wouldn’t?
Anybody can love the most wonderful parts of another person. But that’s not the clever trick.
The really clever trick is this: Can you accept the flaws? Can you look at your partner’s faults honestly and say, ‘I can work around that. I can make something out of it.’?
Because the good stuff is always going to be there, and it’s always going to pretty and sparkly, but the crap underneath can ruin you.
Remember, there is a big difference between somebody who wants you and somebody who would do anything to keep you with them forever...
So do whatever you want to do to keep your soulmate in your life forever.. don't worry about other poeple.
Because In the end, Poeple are Stupid and will judge you anyways.. so follow your heart !!
(Love vs Effort)
I have read this many a times and now I am confused..
"Love is based on EFFORTS" how true is it..
It isn't actually..
Let me give you example..
The one whom I love asks for cold water.. I will fan the cup a million times but than someone else will walk by with ice and he is HERO suddenly.. my efforts are not considered..
Another example that can be..
You as a person, want something from a person or maybe have some expectations. I work with blood, sweat and tears to reach to your expectations and then suddenly someone else comes by and has that things you've been looking for..
so you go with him instead of me..
So all my efforts are useless righ...
Some think love can be measured by the amount of butterflies in their tummy. Others think love can be measured in bunches of flowers, or by using the words
But love can only truly be measured by actions.
It can be a small thing, such as peeling an orange for a person you love because you know they don't like doing it.
In simple words, just work on a simple logic..
Let the wife make the husband glad to come home, and let him make her sorry to see him leave...
As a young 28 years old Indian boy with an naval background which instilled a sense of discipline and responsibility as well as parents who educated me of cultural and societal norms without expecting that I would conform blindly, I have acquired a liberal train of thought and personality.
At this stage in my life I am quite confused in making a decision as to what is better.. A love marriage or a arranged marriage.
My personal belief, supported by scientific facts from psychology, is that a marriage must be arranged by two individuals, where they mutually come to a decision regarding the order of their life together; that it be based on love, trust, affection, respect, commitment and hon...
It took many years to finally see the real me! The one I may not be so happy with at times, and the one others may not ever be happy with. However, I have chosen to accept and love me, no matter what life may throw my way.
It’s not about, what I can do to please everyone around me. It’s not about, what I did or didn’t do right today, or even yesterday. It’s about… Finally being me,finally excepting me, for who I am, at this very moment. I have a identity to keep.
I don’t know where I may end up tomorrow, or what I maybe doing the day after that. But what I can tell you is… I am going to be okay, and I am going to be the real me from here on out ! The one I was created to be. T...
I lay on my bed sighing, unable to imagine a world where there are no people who frustrate me. As they say, “There will always be somebody who will work against you,” in my case it seems to still apply.
Somewhere in this world there is a person who, no matter how much I want to scream, I will never leave.
This person better feel real lucky because if I could leave, or wanted to, I would in a heart beat. Gosh, I guess that is love for you sticking around no matter how much you want to leave because you know that even if you left all you would want to do is come right back. Most people want a love like that, me included, but normally not at the expense of our sanity.
I guess in the end I s...
George Bernard Shaw once wrote there are two tragedies in life, one is to lose your hearts desire, the other is to gain it..
I bet he was right as we strain to grasp the things we desire..
The things we think will make out lives better: money, popularity, fame.
We ignore what truly matters. The simple things, like friendship, family, love, faith, health...
the things we probably already had..
so give time to life.. you will not get a second Chance ever.
-----------------( @@ )----------------Life is a miracle, if you ask me… and I agree with those who said that.
But I would say it is also a project because it starts at a point and it finishes in another.
In couple if years from now I would be married. So if life is a project, then I am sure that love is a game.
It may have different phases though like flirting phase, seduction phase, in love phase, adjusting one with each other phase, couple phase, marriage phase, creating a new life phase, enjoying life as a family phase.
Personally, from my point of view, I like the adjusting one with each other phase. It sorts of fascinates me. The process of getting to know the rules to respect and...
I woke up in the morning and remembered it is my friend’s birthday.
I thought to make my own greeting card. I went to friend's place with card and a gift only to be greeted with a snarl.
“You did not wish me on my birthday." I told her that I called you, she's like..“You never wished me on Facebook.”
So that’s the truth of social media. A birthday is not complete unless you have been wished on Facebook. But is that all that changed?
Before Facebook happened, all of us had under a dozen friends.
I often think.. If the worldû is full of friends bumping into each other on Facebook, who is fighting the wars we keep hearing about on television?
The definition of who we term as a friend has ...
One of my favorite shayari...
Mumkin Ho Aap Se To Bhula Dijiye Mujhe ;
Pathar Pe Hun Lakeer, Mita Dijiye Mujhe;
Har Roz Mujh Se Taaza Shikayat Hai Aap Ko..
Main Kya Hun, Aik Baar Bata Dijiye Mujhe..
Its one in night.. roads are clear of traffic.. I am sitting beside a bus stop, observing few shops getting closed. It's absolutely quite. I can get my own heart beating.
I am suffering from a situation called loneliness.. I guess at age of 27 this is normal. And since it's a feeling beyond my control, I am dealing with it happily.
Soon I will be married and will have a life partner. Something I have been waiting for quite a good time.
However, of late I have inclined towards reading books. This is strange. These days i read a lot, i write a lot, i have no clue why have i become such.
Whatever, i like the idea of sharing my feelings with someone whose miles apart, whom I have never met an...